Saturday, January 31, 2009

Chet, baby.

It's been awhile since I treated myself to new music. In the past few months I discovered Fiest, Inara George, Lilly Allen, and Corinne Bailey Rae. You might think I only love the ladies, but yesterday I re-discovered Chet Baker! Thursday night, I came across a pretty nice movie, The Band, about a lost Egyptian orchestra and one of the band members sang "My Funny Valentine" to an airport employee, but we can talk about the movie later. So I downloaded "The Best of Chet Baker Sings" and I am officially in 'Saturday morning, the laundry is done, breakfast is over, the kids are quiet, HEAVEN'!! By the time I publish this post, I will find my self grounded once again. We are entertaining one of the girls friends and picking up my mother from an apartment sale (sad symptom of our disastrous economy). I'll probably go to work for a few hours, too. Chet will make it a little more bearable.

1. The Thrill Is Gone
2. But Not for Me
3. Time After Time
4. I Get Along Without You Very Well
5. There Will Never Be Another You
6. Look for the Silver Lining
7. My Funny Valentine
8. I Fall in Love Too Easily
9. Daybreak
10. Just Friends
11. I Remember You
12. Let's Get Lost
13. Long Ago (And Far Away)
14. You Don't Know What Love Is
15. That Old Feeling
16. It's Always You
17. I've Never Been in Love Before
18. My Buddy
19. Like Someone in Love
20. My Ideal


Friday, January 30, 2009

what is with my clock?

I am not writing this at 3am. What is up with my blogger clock? Its time to go to work, people!

I love perfume






I have those days where I need to do something to make myself actually get out of the house. Sometimes it is wearing a certain piece of clothing or new music on my ipod. Most days it is wearing perfume. If I forget to spritz myself, I feel naked. It is worse than forgetting to put on earrings and you NEVER forget to put on earrings.
They perfect smell makes you feel right and finding the scents that fit your attitude is like finding jeans that make you behind look pubescent and your legs look long AND let your breath and keep your buttcrack in your pants. The right scent reminds you of who you long to be. I long to be the sexy-librarian, not the misogynists version who whips off her horn rimmed glasses and releases her mane of freaky-deekiness. My sexy-librarian is comfortable in her body, warm and welcoming with obvious boundaries. She is sexual, but not defined by her sexuality, is confident and capable, but not unapproachable. Scary, I know, but she is a little 'grandma', too. The scents I currently wear that bring this woman out of me.are:




1)Agent Provocateur
2)Lolita Lempicka (which is almost empty)
3)Aromatics Elixir






In an effort to define these scents and find similar scents I went to http://www.basenotes.net/.
There, I learned I love the 'chypres' and 'vetiver'. Everything I like has a hint of musk and sometime patchouli.
Be careful, the rants and raves of some perfumes out there can lure in into making a less than ideal purchase. I bought a huge bottle of 'Tabu'. LOL, I know. That bottle of bright orange liquid serves as a reminder that all tastes are not the same. Check out basenotes.net. It rocks.

mothering, yes? dysfunctionizing, perhaps?


Ballet Dancers in Butterfly Costumes (detail)
Edgar Degas - circa 1880
I have two girls and there they are. No, that isn't them at all, but I see the dancer in the pink as my youngest and the yellow dancer as her older sister.
I got three phone calls from three different administrators at the older girl's school yesterday. THREE. Luckily, I am used to it by now and after the mild irritation of the first call, my attitude my attitude shifted from concern and compassion for my girl. She can not help herself. Some get her, some don't. I was also told she might have ADHD, which explains tons (I feel that it explains a little too much). Add to check list "google ADHD children" . My daughter and I had a lovely, animated conversation last night and decided that disciplinarians suck, substitute teachers really suck, and reading does not come easy. It does not help that my daughter is super-mature for her age and the logic she spouts brings down the wrath of adults who are not ready for her.
My girls. Their brains/mouths are what will make them great....once they can harness their power.

Thursday, January 29, 2009

thinking of summer













At 6:18 am on this January morning, I am thinking of better times to come. I don't hate the cold and I love sweaters, tights and scarves, but I do miss the warmth and light of summer. Every year I dream of an ideal summer wardrobe and this website, http://www.eshakti.com/default.asp#





I don't know anything about the company or their ethic, but they offer what seems to be a custom made product at a nice price. Anyone know anything about them?




















Wednesday, January 28, 2009


More art than you ever need. Not really. But there is quite a lot of art here. What so fun about this site? Besides collections of work from artist you have never heard of, there is a game! It's called the "Artwork Faceoff!"


hours of fun...well at least 20-30 minutes of fun.

snow day number 2

Well, it isn't a snow day, really. It's an icy, cold day. The kids are asleep and most likely will not be too happy about being stuck in the house again. The thought of the work on my desk growing every minute makes me want to cry. I could be more productive at home and do some laundry or clean a bathroom, but UGH...I just can't do it. We will have to get out of the house today if the roads are cleared enough.



Late yesterday afternoon I let my kids out. I head them in front of our building and saw another kid with them. My oldest kid's friend walked over from her house. They came in soaking wet and freezing asking for hot chocolate. It got dark so we walked the friend home. I could have kicked myself for not bringing my camera. The dark sky, the bright street lights and the glitter and sparkle of the dripping snow/sleet was beautiful. On the way back home, we stood in the middle of a dark street and listened to the clinks and ping of the ice falling from the trees. I wish I had pictures.



There is nothing in the house to eat either. Pasta, no sauce. Flour, no butter. 2 eggs. 1/4 of a gallon of milk to last through Friday. As I look through my recipe books, I am getting more and more discouraged. I can eat anything, but the kids......they are hugely, finicky pains about food.

One thing I can make (and the kids will eat) is a fabulously easy coffee cake from the book above. "The Fannie Farmer Cookbook", by Marion Cunningham is full of good reading and good food. Fannie Merrit Farmer wrote the first version of this cookbook in 1896. Wikipedia says:

"Fannie published her most well-known work, The Boston Cooking-School Cook Book, in 1896. A follow-up to an earlier version called Mrs. Lincoln's Boston Cook Book, published by Mary J. Lincoln in 1884, the book under Farmer's direction eventually contained 1,849 recipes, from milk toast to Zigaras à la Russe. Farmer also included essays on housekeeping, cleaning, canning and drying fruits and vegetables, and nutritional information.
The book's publisher (Little, Brown & Company) did not predict good sales and limited the first edition to 3,000 copies.[1] The book was so popular in America, so thorough, and so comprehensive that housewives would refer to later editions simply as the "Fannie Farmer cookbook", and it is still available in print over 100 years later.
Farmer provided scientific explanations of the chemical processes that occur in food during cooking, and also helped to standardize the system of measurements used in cooking in the USA. Before the Cookbook's publication, other American recipes frequently called for amounts such as "a piece of butter the size of an egg" or "a teacup of milk." Farmer's systematic discussion of measurement — "A cupful is measured level ... A tablespoonful is measured level. A teaspoonful is measured level." — led to her being named "the mother of level measurements."
Farmer left the Boston Cooking School in 1902 and created Mrs. Farmer's School of Cookery. She began by teaching gentlewomen and housewives the rudiments of plain and fancy cooking, but her interests eventually led her to develop a complete work of diet and nutrition for the ill, titled Food and Cookery for the Sick and Convalescent. Farmer was invited to lecture at Harvard Medical School and began teaching convalescent diet and nutrition to doctors and nurses. She felt so strongly about the significance of proper food for the sick that she believed she would be remembered chiefly by her work in that field, as opposed to her work in household and fancy cookery. Farmer understood perhaps better than anyone else at the time the value of appearance, taste, and presentation of sickroom food to ill and wasted people with poor appetites; she ranked these qualities over cost and nutritional value in importance."


As you will soon learn about me, I heart anything representative of 18th and 19th everyday life. I love realist painting and naturalist writers. Imagining the obstacles, implements, finances, sounds, tastes, textures and smells people encountered creates a connection between that world and mine. The idea of people facing the same issues, but under wildly different circumstances than our own fascinates me.

ANYWAY, this is the coffee cake I am about to make (its on p. 775 of my book)



Quick Coffee Cake (8-inch square cake)



1 cup sugar
1 3/4 cups white flour
2 tsp baking powder
4 tbsp butter (I have to use Country Crock)
1 egg, lightly beaten
1/2 cup milk
1 tbsp sugar mixed with 1 1/2 tsp cinnamon

Preheat the oven to 375 degrees Fahrenheit. Butter an 8-inch square cake pan. Mix the 1 cup sugar, the flour, and the baking powder in a large bowl. Work in the butter with your fingers or a pastry blender until the mixture resembles coarse meal. Add the egg and milk and blend. Spoon into the pan. Sprinkle the sugar-cinnamon mixture evenly over the top. Bake for 20 minutes.

So good.









Okay. So my angel helped me with the coffee cake so the cinnamon and sugar was concentrated in the middle of the cake. Also, the Country Crock was not as nice as real butter......STILL you see they ate it. And started with the extra cinnamony-sugary part.




The recipe right after the coffee cake is for "Griddlecakes". They make the best tiny pancakes I have ever had in my entire life, ever.

Chicks and Delft Bowl
Arthur Fitzwilliam Tait - 1890

Chicken in a Pot

I really want to make "Chicken in a Pot". Wait, no, I really wanted to make it until I googled "chicken in a pot french" and found the flickr pages of these poor chickens. There are some truly demented people in the kitchen. It didn't help that interspersed between the images of posed carcasses there were pictures of living chickens of all ages climbing in and out of all sorts of pots. There are few things better than a deliciously roasted, boiled or pan-fried chicken, but those horrible pictures. :( Can we respect the chicken, people?





I am going to make this dish this weekend. Very excited.





Chicken in a Pot





2 2lb-2 1/2lb of chicken (pieces)

1/2 cup of olive oil (that sounds like too much for me. i'm going to us extra virgin)

1 large onion (i am going to use a yellow one)

1 clove of garlic (i am going to use like 8 cloves)

(the recipe doesn't call for bay leaves, but I think I am going to put one in there for the last 30 minutes of simmering.

1 tsp salt (kosher or sea salt)

3/4 tsp black pepper (fresh ground)

1 medium tomato chopped (maybe two plum tomatoes)

1/2 cup dry white wine (I might tip a little dry sherry into this, too)




Brown the chicken in the oil
Add onion and garlic and seasoning
Cover and simmer for 3o minutes
Add tomatoes and wine (bay leaf)

Simmer another 30 minutes




My favorite Christmas present will make this recipe possible. Thanks Daddy, for buying it for me and thanks Martha Stewart for making it affordable and blue. Mine is the 7 QT beauty.



My mother gave me a red rectangular casserole with a lid that is just as useful and aesthetically pleasing, but I can't find a picture of it online. I will have to take one and post it later.